Unless you stop 100% contact from the public, you will eventually get this virus at some point. Avoiding 100% contact is not realistic for most individuals.
You will not get the virus if you are vaccinated. That's the whole point of a vaccine.
That's obvious, but you did not even mention it in your description of your case. It seems like a strange thing to leave out. If enough people take the vaccines, it is 100% certain the pandemic will end. Millions of lives will be saved.
Anyway, I hope you are feeling better, and that you and your wife fully recover soon.