You've nailed it! This is a difference between what I see going on in academic science in general and what goes on here.
The most sciency part of science is saying that some claim or theory seems to be wrong. But I see little appetite for this sort of activity here. The LENR community thus opens itself to charges that it practices a pseudoscience.
Can anyone here point to a fundamental LENR theory or claim from the past 30 years that the community now sees as wrong? (I exclude the unmasking of charlatans like Rossi)
Opinions would be divided on this topic. The problem is that there is no (satisfying) theory that explain the phenomenon (LENR), yet. This goes to the heart of the whole issue. Mainstream sees the phenomenon as problematic, because their models do not really allow for Low energy input, high energy output, essentially chemical energy in, nuclear out.
This community, I think more, or less sees it the other way around, We see much evidence (observations) that point to the fact the current models must be wrong. Hence the search for a more and better explaining theory is on.
Does one believe the observations or the theoretical models, that is what it comes down to, so...... Time will tell which way was the correct one.