Thanks for the link, I was using slightly different values. So maybe after a few tries it will work. I'm currently using about 0.1M salt and 20 mA/cm2. Not sure if the cathode should be fully submerged (is easiest to let it stick out of water). Maybe best would be plate-to-plate with small gap?
My nickel is Aliexpress "99.99% pure", obviously could be bad.